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| Guidelines by Kyle |
(1)Talking:
-Don't wait. You know that girl you've been eyeing since the start of high school? Do not wait! Talk to her. And always try to do it directly. If you keep almost talking to her but chickening out, or just avoiding her completely, either one or both of the following will most likely happen: she'll think your creepy, or somebody else will beat you to her. Also, most girls like the fact that your brave enough to come up and talk to them.
-Don't rush things. Don't rush right in and try to get a number/date during your first conversation with her. Get to know her a bit first, make sure you like her personality as well as her body.
-Calling. If you say your going to call, you better call. Don't ignore her. Call just because you felt like hearing her voice. Call before she goes to sleep, just to say goodnight. Women love it when you call to talk to them, even if you have nothing to say.
-Watch where you look. Do not stare at anything besides their eyes. Make eye contact, or make no contact at all. Making no contact at all isn't very productive though, so aim for the eyes ;).
(2)Never Evers:
-Make stuff up/Lie.
-Abuse (Physically, Mentally, or Emotionally). This includes cheating, making her jealous, etc.
*The above should be self-explanatory.*
(3)Dates:
-Change it up. Don't always take her out for dinner, don't always take her out to the movies. Find something she likes doing, and try to do something relating to that.
-Kissing. Don't, right after the movie starts, go for a kiss. Don't expect a kiss on her doorstep after a nice dinner. Take it slow, especially on the first date. Watch her body language, try to find out if she's even interested in doing anything like that.
-Paying. Always offer to pay for the first date at least. I personally like to pay for a majority of the dates. Some girls love that, some think that not paying for their share makes them feel cheap/incapable. It all depends on the girl, try to find out what your girl is like first.
(4)Make Her Happy:
-Women love to listened to. Make sure you listen, and make sure she knows your listening. If, during a conversation, you find out her favorite kind of food is anything Greek, don't ask her out for Chinese. Remember what her likes/dislikes are, and act on them.
-From my experience, I've found what makes women happy the most, is things like being in your arms, getting kissed on the cheek/neck/forehead, and having their ears whispered into. Let her take pictures of you, leave her messages, let her just relax in the safety of your arms, dance with her, etc. Just cuddle and love her. Despite what many girls believe, most guys don't mind doing things like that. A decent percentage of guys actually like doing things like that just as much as the girl likes the guy doing it.
-Compliments. Do not use cheesy pickup lines, or any pickup lines for that matter. Almost all pickup lines are cheesy anyway. Don't tell her she's hot or ***y, tell her she's beautiful. The best things to compliment are her hair and eyes, or herself completely.
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